HOW TO MAKE LIVES BETTER FOR WOMEN IN THIS SOCIETY

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For the final edition of this blog series, I will talk about perhaps the most common aspect of the topic- our dear society. It’s not like none of us knows what goes on in the society, what happens behind the doors of houses, what happens in the gossip of people and what is said in the pointless taunts and remarks passed as a part of routine. Therefore, I will not waste words trying to explain what is wrong, neither will I mention how to right it. I will simply mention the efforts that are already underway because luckily once again, this is one of the aspects that has had some light shed on to it in recent years. Every other week we see stories, posts and campaigns on social media. A new harassment case, rape cases, and murder cases against women and trust me when I say that it’s the social media that brings all of these cases into light and tries to ensure justice for the victims. Our paper and TV media is controlled, they are forced to deliver a narrative in order to delude the publi...
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HOW TO ACE YOUR FIRST JOB INTERVIEW

So you’re a student who just graduated and is looking forward to his first job interview? Or maybe you’re still studying and have your first job interview coming up; in either case, you are at the right place. Interviews can be bit of a challenge for those who have not had the experience before. But, provides you follow these basic instructions, you are sure to kill it!

First things first, always do your home-work, which means getting as much information about the corporation as possible. You should not only rely on their Website only, rather go visit their social media and the LinkedIn profiles of their management. This would deliver a message that you did not just see the vacancy and showed up but you are really interested in the position as well as in the vision of the company.

The next thing you should be prepared for is your introduction. Now, the important part here is that whenever an interviewer asks you to introduce yourself, they are not interested in the information provided in the CV rather something that is not there. For example, instead of telling your name and qualifications, you should talk start with your personal attributes and how well you could perform as an individual in this environment. Be sure to know well your strengths and weaknesses (present your weak points as your areas of improvements where you are already working).

The next thing would be dressing – regardless of the culture of the company you should dress in the most professional way possible – a suit with a nice tie is always a good idea. Have a proper hair-cut, your hair gelled, put on a perfume and make sure to have clean shiny shoes. This would present you as an individual who is very serious about this opportunity and would naturally leave a very good impression.

Another important this is to have a very positive attitude which would mean to have a smile on your face, not interrupting, being very calm and composed as well as being completely honest – there is a high chance that any lie you tell or any exaggeration could be easily sensed by the interveners. You would be asked about your expectations from this job and the salary you would find appropriate – sure you can negotiate, but you must do it in a very professional manner e.g. I was paid 50k a month at my last job so I am expecting at least 55k a month here.

Always remember, in any job interview, you are a seller and your interviewers are buyer; your task should be to sell yourself and explain what value you would be providing to the organization via your role.


Lastly, wear a lighter color shirt, it is a psychological thing that builds trust. Good luck!

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