HOW TO MAKE LIVES BETTER FOR WOMEN IN THIS SOCIETY

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For the final edition of this blog series, I will talk about perhaps the most common aspect of the topic- our dear society. It’s not like none of us knows what goes on in the society, what happens behind the doors of houses, what happens in the gossip of people and what is said in the pointless taunts and remarks passed as a part of routine. Therefore, I will not waste words trying to explain what is wrong, neither will I mention how to right it. I will simply mention the efforts that are already underway because luckily once again, this is one of the aspects that has had some light shed on to it in recent years. Every other week we see stories, posts and campaigns on social media. A new harassment case, rape cases, and murder cases against women and trust me when I say that it’s the social media that brings all of these cases into light and tries to ensure justice for the victims. Our paper and TV media is controlled, they are forced to deliver a narrative in order to delude the publi...
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HOW TO MAKE LIVES BETTER FOR WOMEN IN A HOUSEHOLD

It’s the year 2021 and all aspects of life have significantly progressed over time. The one thing that doesn’t seem to have even moved is the mentality of most of our men; men who believe we reside in an entirely safe state with no societal imperfections. I, for one, believe that not only is our nation flawed beyond description, but is also an unsafe place for our women. Anyone who is not deluded will believe that our mothers, sisters and female acquaintances cannot be trusted at the hands of this society.

“Men are the protectors and maintainers of women…” (Surah An-Nisa: 34)

And yet all our so-called “Men of Religion” are on top of the list of people who believe in male dominance and those who claim the only way forward is a patriarchal society that oppresses women (or keeps them in their rightful place, as the deluded so proudly claim). Every single day we witness new cases of domestic violence against women, investigate and most of the time it turns out the offender is a male with a full beard and no moustache.

“He is a religious man, his wife must be devilish”- the ignorant society claims, and the tale goes unheard.

The solution does not lie in educating the women, it lies in educating the men. It may hurt their ego, in fact, it SHOULD hurt their ego if that means a wife can lead a peaceful life and that a mother would not have wounds to hide from a child that his father inflicted upon her.

The way forward is a government that follows Sharia in matters of punishment and makes an example out of such offenders so that such an event doesn’t take place again. Surely then, the life of women in households will be one worth living.

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  1. Jawwad ParachaMay 24, 2021 at 12:03 AM

    Well said 👍

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  2. UnknownMay 24, 2021 at 4:08 PM

    I am impressed that there are people in our society who think like this and are confident to express their thoughts at this platform. Keep it up. 👍

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  3. UnknownJune 12, 2021 at 6:05 AM

    Agreed 👏👏

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